How to Be a Woman

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How to be a Woman

1) Accept your emotions.

Feminine energy is expressive by nature, and a woman is bound to have plenty of wild feelings to express. But rather than allowing outbursts and impulses to control her life, she understands that her emotions are not there to guide her actions, but to teach her a lesson in the moment. She does not repress or stifle her emotions, or try to remain calm at all times. She realizes that not only does emotional energy need to be expressed (or else it builds and stagnates inside her), but her crazy outbursts and mood swings are actually a vital ingredient of her expressive beauty. Therefore, she expresses but also listens to her emotions humbly, intending that wisdom be revealed and honoring her own occasional inability to see clearly.

2) Be beautiful.

As a feminine expression of divine energy, a woman is physically beautiful. Perhaps not to all men, and perhaps not to modeling agencies, but she always styles herself to accentuate her own radiance. A woman whose eyes glow with love and enthusiasm may not need to be thin, have round and shiny ‘parts’, or even wear makeup, as this love-glow is enough to tell anyone she meets that she is alive inside.

A woman is comfortable being a human flower–whereas the masculine acts upon the world, the feminine exists in it as divine art.

3) Consciously devote yourself.

A woman trusts herself to choose a worthy man in whom she can completely invest her heart and her energy. Such a devoted woman has the courage to trust her man’s steady vision to penetrate the fog of her rampant emotions.

She supports her man on his path and is unafraid to humbly voice her ideas, but allows him to make all the decisions.

She faithfully engages the adventures he creates.

She is not enslaved to this man by her emotions, but chooses each day to trust him completely all over again. Therefore, she asks “How may I serve you in this moment?”

She accepts his mistakes in action, but not his mistakes in intention. She realizes that her trust and support are founded on the purity of the man’s intentions, for if he wishes to harm others or violate his core principles she will not follow.

4) Express love actively.

As a radiant human expression of the feminine, a woman spreads love and light to others. She giggles and gossips gleefully with her girlfriends, contributing to the joy of the group of ‘clucking hens’. However, she never speaks badly about anyone, as the cheap thrill of spreading rumors does not appeal to her.

She engages others with cheer and respect, honoring the value of all people and relishing the opportunity to brighten their lives.

5) Treat suitors with respect.

Unless a man drunkenly staggers over to her and appears to be a physical threat, she declines romantic invitations with humility and appreciation. She is grateful for the gift of sex appeal, and grateful to the man who approaches her for paying her a compliment.

6) Honor the femininity of other women.

A woman honors the bond of femininity that she shares with other women, which is very different from the bonds between men and women or men and men. A woman is comfortable braiding her girlfriend’s hair, dancing with her at a rock show, and cuddling with her at a slumber party. A woman is not afraid to intimately love other women through this feminine bond, as she knows that it takes a man on his path to properly lead and lovingly dominate her.

7) Express yourself.

A woman finds outlets for her natural creativity. She may paint pictures, decorate rooms, play music, or help her clueless male friends pick out clothes. She expresses not for the praise of others or for any motive, but for the simple joy of extending her beauty into the world.

8 ) Say what you mean.

A woman knows when to be cryptic and coy and when to be direct and honest. When she has a need that is not being met in her relationships, she expresses it as humbly and accurately as she can. She does NOT wait for others to read her mind while an issue eats away at her insides and her relationships.

9) Listen to your intuition.

When emotions run wild and thoughts cloud the mind, a woman disengages the chaos and trusts her gut feelings. Not her feelings–the feelings beneath them. The ones that seem binary, signaling either peace or stress. She chooses peace and avoids stress, as the cheap thrill of drama does not appeal to her.